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Sunday, April 29, 2012

Families

One census states that a family is a group of two or more people related by birth, marriage,adoption or living together. Now families comes in all sizes,races,cultures
and relationships. What makes a family is the love ,and caring for each other. A family doesn't necessarily consist of a Mom and Dad, it can consist of grandparents, one parent and now days two same sex parents.
Who a person has in the family is not the most important thing.Adopted children have someone who took them home to care for and love.  It is the love that is given that is important.Today's society is a fast society, everyone is in a hurry and they stop and realize how important a family is. And sometimes they realize it when it is too late. Many of you have lost your parents, or your brothers and sisters, I am certain that many of you if you had the chance would do something differently. So I say to all of you folks who have families, don't wait until it is too late. Take time to show them you care, take time to stop by and say hello, a phone call to a parent can mean the world to them. Phone your sister who is living far away or now days we have computers , emails are free so there are no excuses not to contact a family member.
Now with families comes births,marriages and funerals, and the saying goes that we only meet family and friends at weddings or funeral. Change that! Plan a family get together. A reunion.  Now many of us in a way are sort of one big family too. If we trace our family trees  we notice our lines branching into each other  and this is a reason for a family reunion.  If we think back to our first ancestors who came to America for instance , we are all their family. In 2009 we had a family reunion in the name of Bergeron-Damboise . We held it in the area where they ended their last years. We had folks from as far as Louisiana, Virginia ,among others and on a certain day we all marched down this beautiful path lined with trees to the cemetery where our ancestors were buried and everyone of us got a special feeling, knowing we were getting together to honor our ancestors that we all descended from. What a feeling. So now I suggest you plan a family gathering for your family, cousins, aunts, uncles, before it it too late. From there you can create a larger reunion for your grandparent's descendants and so on.  You can also make a suprise party for someone in your family,another way to get the family together. It is very important. At the moment we are planning a party for my Mom who is turning 94 and inviting as many as we can, my thought on this is, I would rather have family and friends see my Mom while she is still living instead of at her funeral. I am looking forward to be with my siblings and our friends and relatives....... There is bickering in many families, let it go, get along, one day we may all need one another..... Hope you have enjoyed my blog. Now I am adding a few things you can find at http://www.zazzle.com/allicor*    Check my greeting card folder then invitations.
 

Monday, April 16, 2012

Summer Time

Hello everyone, well for many of you soon it will be summertime, have you planned a trip yet? I remember my late husband worked for the railway and we had free passes to go anywhere across Canada and everytime our vacations came, I would keep saying to him, Where are we going to go on our vacation? We used to go to Ontario to visit his sister and this paticular year we decided to go to see Niagara Falls. We had to make it a short visit because from there we had to take the train elsewhere so it was a one night thing. And I wanted to see the falls at night time. Anyway that afternoon we went across to Niagara Falls on the American side just for a look around. While we were there, my husband decided to get himself a pint of vodka. That was fine, we returned to our hotel room, with plenty of time to see the Falls lit up. Well he started drinking  his vodka, one drink led to another and another and another, and the first thing I knew he was passed out, and no way hosay could I wake him up. So I did not get a chance to see the Falls at night. The next day we were leaving on the train. My husband was very sorry that he did not get to show me the Falls and I would never have ventured out alone. All of a sudden he picked up the empty pint of Vodka and examined it and we were totally surprised because come to find out, the Vodka was 100 Proof. No wonder he passed out.....But we did return to the see the falls again and it was a beautiful trip the next time, and no, he never drank at all on the trip... Another trip we took was we called a trip to nowhere, we crossed into Maine USA and crossed back through the mountains in the fall coming out near Granby Quebec, what a beautiful sight to see, with the leaves changing colors. Sometimes a trip to nowhere can bring you a real sense of adventure. Now I have been creating some products and I would like to share them, one is an image of an old canal in Utrecht in The Netherlands, what a beautiful scenery, and if you are going to Paris, check these items. You can find all of these at http://www.zazzle.com/allicor* Enjoy and thanks for reading my blog, sometimes they may be more interesting than others.

Monday, April 9, 2012

The Titanic

The following is from a book Disaster. As you know one hundred years ago the Titanic sank.

The gala voyage was the most glamorous Atlantic Crossing of all time. Yet because of out of date seamanship, it was to end in a terrible tragedy when 1500 people drowned or froze to death.

The iceberg that was drifting 500 miles south of Newfoundland’s Cape Race on April 14, 1911,resembled a crouching lion, as high as a 3 storied house and black with lumps of soil and rock frozen deep in its sinister bulk. Only a seventh of the iceberg showed above of the unusually calm sea. And that seventh blurred and blended with the dusk the day ended and the lights came on in the cabins and staterooms of the largest ship in the world pushing her 46,328 tons through the darkness on a collision course set for a mountain of ice slightly larger than St Paul’s Cathedral.

The Titanic was not just the biggest liner in the world, she was the pride of the White Star Line on her maiden voyage. Ten-decked she measured 852 feet from stem to stern, was capable of 23 knots, carried one crew member for every passenger and had suites of such luxury that they cost 870 pounds for the fine day crossing. Her Café Parisian was decorated with trellis work with ivy creepers, her Turkish Bath lit by Moorish lamps, the promenade deck of each private state room half timbered in the manner of an Elizabethan cottage. She was by repute and design ,unsinkable.

And in order not to clutter up her 7 mile of deck she carried only sufficient life boats to provide a place for one person in every three. There was a lot of ice about that day, as every ship in the area was aware. The Caroni had seen it and radioed a warning to the Titanic, as had the Baltic and the Massena. One White Star Liner, the Californian found herself so hemmed in by drifting floes that her captain gave up the struggle and shut down his engines, preferring to let his vessel drift through the night rather than continue groping his way dangerously through in the dark. But the Titanic 30 miles away to the North, drove on at a steady 22 knots. It seems as incomprehensive today as the subsequent Court of Enquiry found it at that time. “Just tell me, when a liner is known to be approaching ice, is it not usual in your experience to reduce speed? I have never known speed to be reduced on any ship I have ever been in in the North Atlantic in clear weather on account of ice”.

The captain of the Titanic was neither incompetent nor of unsound mind. At 63 he had been brought out of retirement solely to oversee this all important event. Bluff, bearded and vastly experienced his enormous salary at the time was 1250 pounds when the commanders were lucky to get half that sum. If the captain was not afraid of icebergs, neither were his peers. In due course captain after captain who could claim between 20 and 40 years service on the high seas would tramp into the witness box and say the same thing: “ We go full speed whether ice is reported or not. As long as the weather is clear, I always go full speed. I would not have reduced speed. I never slow down. “ They were men who had gone to sea in sail and learned their craft clinging in the rigging of tea clippers bucking their way round Cape Horn. Men of unimaginable fortune who were afraid of nothing on earth and probably looked forward confidently to getting at the very least, respectful treatment from God. They were the last of their kind, and although they would have considered it unseamanlike not to have kept a sensible lookout for ice, not one of them would have slowed his ship against the wildly unlikely eventuality of meeting a black iceberg in the dark.

At 11 pm that night ,the captain of the Californian was standing with his third officer when he noticed the lights of a ship in the distance. At that moment Captain Evans the wireless officer, came on deck and the captain asked him if he knew what ship was passing. Evan looked at the lights for a moment trying to adjust his eyes to the night. “Only the Titanic”. The captain said you had better warn the Titanic that we’re stopped surrounded by ice. In the wireless room of the Titanic the senior Marconi operator was a much busier man. The passengers kept him busy sending out messages.

The Marconi operator then received a message from the Californian but he sent them a message telling then to keep out they were jamming him. The Californian didn’t press the point. Later the Marconi operator received a message from the Masada “ We have seem much heavy pack ice and a great number of bergs. Also field ice. The operator acknowledged but then Marconi operator never replied. No one will never know what happened to the message itself , in never reached the bridge.

Iceberg right ahead. At that moment the Titanic was not so much a ship as 52 310 displaced tons moving forward at 22 knots. As it was the iceberg was only 400 yards away when the Titanic’s bow began to swing slowly to one side. The quartermaster had his wheel hand over, but the vast underwater mass of the iceberg reached out and clawed at the oncoming mass of smooth steel. Everyone on the bridge felt the slight shock as she struck right up under her bow, 10 feet above the keel. The Titanic drove on, while the ice opened her up like a tin can. It took 10 seconds to leave a wound 300 feet long. From that moment , the biggest liner in the world had just under two and a half hour to live. In the saloons, a few of the passengers felt the impact and drifted out on deck. Some stared at the bulk of the iceberg for a while and picked up fragments of the ice that had fallen all around. But nothing of interest seemed to be going on, and it was bitterly cold. In one or twos they went back in to play cards. But things were very different down below. In No. 6 boiler room the sea was coming in through a vast hosepipe, a couple of feet above the plate while in No. 3 it was bursting through the bunkered coal. The men scrambled through the watertight doors as they ground heavy closed. In No.5 Stokehold there was a sudden angry roar as water flooded on to red hot coals. In minutes dark water was halfway up the sides of the boilers. The chief engineer told the captain “ We’re making water fast, the mail hold’s filling.” The Marconi operator sent a message:

“CQD I require assistance immediately. Struck iceberg in position 41 46 N 50 14 W. Ships headed for the rescue “ the Frankfurt, the Mount Temple, the Carpathian, the Caroni, the Baltic turned and headed at full speed towards the Titanic ,each as it turned out were too far away. The closest ship was the Californian who had shut down her engines over the horizon. Two rockets were sent up but sometimes ships exchanged greeting by sending rockets. The passengers on the Titanic knew they were distress rockets because they had started getting the women and children into the boats in the flickering light of the detonations. Soon the American press would write at length on the scenes of wild panic and of ship’s officers holding back maddened passengers at pistol point. But in fact most were unwilling to go. Some women stared tearfully at the 60 foot drop down to the water, others refused to leave their husbands or simply failed to see the necessity of it all. But the captain could not make things right. Deep in the remaining boiler rooms the engineers were keeping up the pressure in a vain attempt to save the pumps. Not a single engineer was saved, there they were down in the vessel and did not try to come up until all hope of safety had passed. Maybe it is a good thing there was no rush for the lifeboats, because there were not enough of them. There were in fact seats for only 1178 people for a ship that carried 3320 passengers when full. Some boats went down full , some half empty, while the ships band played ragtime . There would in due course be reports that third class passengers had been imprisoned in their flooding quarters while the great and wealthy got safely away. But in fact the women showed considerable reluctance to leave their men as well as refusing to abandon their baggage. In most cases it was all they had in the world. As soon as the boats were launched they were rowed desperately away from the ship. Some in the direction of an elusive light. Others in sudden panic to avoid the expected whirlpool that would engulf them all when the time came. The Titanic was going down. Although the great ship’s lights were still on, her bows had vanished and her propellers were already showing clear of the water. A little later the bridge itself lurched under. There was a sudden wild scramble from the doomed ship. Men began to jump or fall from her super structure. They came down with a litter of deck chairs, tables, and anything they figured would make a raft. All at once the sea was full of hundreds of people who screamed and yelled for help. Some became very quiet very quickly and the water was freezing. By now all 711 that were to live were already in boats. And the Titanic was slowly sliding out of sight. In Halifax there is a cemetery for many of the Titanic victims ,it was a tragedy that should never have happened and let us pray that it doesn’t happen again.

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